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Your principal wants to give something away. Here's the family-office playbook.

From 'do something nice' to delivered, in six quiet steps.

By Hesbon Osoro··2 min read

It usually starts with five words over dinner: 'Let's do something nice for…' By the morning it's your job. Here is how the best offices turn a warm impulse into a clean, discreet, completed gift.

  1. Brief. Pin down the object, the recipient, the budget envelope, the anonymity level and the deadline. If the object isn't exact, get it exact.
  2. Diligence. Verify the recipient's counsel or contact, the asset's title or spec, and any conflicts. For property: searches. For vehicles: allocation and delivery windows.
  3. Structure. Decide the route — counsel-to-counsel, escrow, intermediary — and whether it's a gift outright or through an entity. Tax counsel signs off here.
  4. Execution. Dealer orders, conveyancing, share transfers. The principal should never need to make a call.
  5. Discretion. Agree up front what the recipient may say, and to whom. Default to nothing.
  6. Documentation. File the gift record, the transfer documents and any filings. Future-you will be grateful.
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